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Your Wedding Planning Timeline

Posted by Carlos | Posted in Wedding Niche | Posted on 26-05-2009

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Anyone can plan their own wedding but they should realize there will be a great deal of work involved. They should also realize there is a general timeline which should be followed to ensure tasks are completed on time. This article will provide a basic timeline for the year leading up to the couple’s wedding day.

The process of planning a wedding typically begins at least one year before the actual wedding day. The first task couples should accomplish at this time is selecting a date for the wedding. This is important because many reception halls book up early so choosing a wedding date at least a year in advance can prevent the couple from missing out on their dream location. It also helps to ensure friends and family members have plenty of time to make arrangements to attend the wedding. During this time the couple should set their budget, book the location for the reception and begin shopping for a wedding gown.

Approximately 8-10 months before the wedding date the couple will begin making some serious decisions about the wedding. They should formalize a theme, select bridesmaid dresses and create a gift registry. The couple should also interview and select a number of service providers including a photographer, videographer, caterer, and entertainers such as a band or a DJ. The couple should also create their guest list during this time.

Approximately 5-7 months before the wedding date the couple will still be making important decisions and plans for the wedding. Now is the time to order wedding invitations and finalize the guest list. The couple will also want to begin interviewing cake designers and will want to select one soon because good cake designers may book up months in advance. Plans for the honeymoon should also begin during this time. Couples will also want to reserve a block of rooms in a local hotel at this time. By reserving a large block of rooms, the couple will likely be able to secure a discount for their guests and will also save their out of town guests the trouble of having to search around for hotel accommodations.

Approximately 3-4 months before the wedding the whirlwind of planning begins to slow down but there is still work to be done. During this time the couple should shop for and order wedding bands and select a florist. The couple will also want to shop for and order favors at this time. They will also want to select and reserve the groom’s and groomsmen’s attire. During this time the couple should also meet with the caterer to finalize the menu. It is also finally time to send out invitations for the wedding.

Approximately two months before the wedding date the planning preparation picks up. Now is the time for the couple to make plans for the rehearsal dinner. The bride will also have to start scheduling her fittings as well as fittings for the bridesmaids and flower girl. The groom should confirm the reservations for his attire and the attire of his groomsmen.

One month before the wedding the couple is into the home stretch of planning. They should apply for their marriage license and confirm details with all wedding service providers. The bride should also meet with her hair stylist and make-up artist to decide on wedding day styles.

The last two weeks before the wedding is a virtual whirlwind of events. The couple will have a lot to do and will likely need help from others to accomplish these last minute details. They will need to call guests who have not yet responded, provide a final headcount to the caterer, create seating plans, confirm floral deliveries, confirm honeymoon reservations and pick up wedding gown and tuxedos.

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Weddings:When Traditions Collide

Posted by Carlos | Posted in Wedding Niche | Posted on 26-05-2009

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One of the most difficult situations when planning a wedding involves cases where the bride’s family and the groom’s family have different religious or cultural traditions associated with weddings. These situations become difficult because both sides of the family may expect their traditions to be followed and feelings can become easily hurt if the couple makes decisions which leave out certain traditions. These situations can also cause problems between the bride to be and the groom to be if they side with their own family in these disputes instead of working with their fiancé to compromise. This article will discuss a few strategies for dealing with these difficult situations involving religious and cultural traditions.

Without a doubt the best strategy for dealing with cultural and religious differences is to keep and open mind and be willing to compromise. This is very important because both sides of the family will want to feel as though they are being included in the wedding. However, if the plans are made to include one religion or culture while the other is ignored there are bound to be hurt feelings. Often when there are religious differences involved the religious leaders can play a significant role in facilitating a compromise which will make both sides happy. Most religious leaders have dealt with these types of situations in the past and they may have a number of good ideas about how a ceremony can be structured to include both religions. Family elders can play the same type of role in situations where the differences between the families are cultural. Having a representative from each family work with the couple to plan the wedding will most likely result in a fair compromise for the wedding plans.

There will be some times when a couple is forced to make some very difficult decisions during the course of planning their wedding. In particular if the religion of one member of the couple has strict and specific rules about wedding ceremonies. In these cases the couples will have to decide whether or not they are willing to follow these rules. For example some religions may not allow non-members to witness the wedding. This would mean if the couple is married in a ceremony within a particular church only one side of the family would be able to attend. The couple will have to decide if this is acceptable to them or not. They may feel very strongly about being married in this church and be willing to make this sacrifice or they may feel as though excluding one side of the family is not acceptable.

Finally, when couples are dealing with significant differences in religion and culture they may consider having two different wedding ceremonies and receptions. This may sound excessive but if there is very little chance that the two families will be able to compromise and behave civilly, it is worthwhile to take this step. This way each side of the family will get exactly what they want. The bride to be and groom to be will also feel as though they do not have to make decisions which might upset friends or family members. It may be more work to plan two wedding ceremonies and receptions but in the long run it will save the couple a great deal of stress.

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When Everyone Else Involved Is a Bridezilla

Posted by Carlos | Posted in Wedding Niche | Posted on 26-05-2009

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The term bridezilla was coined to describe brides who behave badly during the process of planning their wedding day as well as on the wedding day. This includes, but is certainly not limited to, brides who complain loudly and often about every detail in their wedding, brides who subject their bridesmaids to harsh treatments and allow little input into decisions regarding their attire, brides who make difficult demands of service providers and brides who generally have unrealistic expectations for the wedding. However, in many cases the bride may not be the problem at all. There may be others involved in the process of planning the wedding who take on this bridezilla role on behalf of the bride. This may include the groom, the parents of the bride or the groom, friends or family members or even an overzealous wedding planner. This article will discuss how brides can deal with situations where someone involved in the process of planning the wedding is acting like a bridezilla.

The easiest bridezilla situation to handle is one where it is the wedding planner who is out of control. Ideally the couple would have carefully screened potential wedding planners to ensure they selected someone who was not only highly recommended but also was a good match for the couple in terms of personality. However, even the most carefully couple may find themselves in a situation where they are faced with a problem of dealing with a wedding planner who is out of control. In this case the easiest and most logical solution is to fire the wedding planner. This may put the couple back a few steps but in the long run it will be the best decision for the couple and plans will go more smoothly with this person no longer involved. In most cases the contract signed will include language on how these issues will be resolved and there will not be disputes. Most wedding planners provide their own contracts for just this reason.

Unfortunately when the parents of the bride or the groom are the ones behaving badly it is not as easy of a situation to resolve. The mother of the bride is notorious for being the one who interferes the most in wedding plans but there are certainly cases where the mother of the groom is the troublemaker. Either of the fathers can also cause problems. Unfortunately in these cases, firing the offending family member is not possible. However, there may be tactful ways to divert the parent away from the planning process. For example the couple may sit down with the parent and thank them for all of the help but let them know they don’t want to continue to be a burden and will start handling more of the responsibility in the wedding planner. This gets the couple out of the difficult situation without mention of the bad behavior by the parent. How this type of situation is handled will depend on the type of relationship the couple has with the parents. Some couples may be able to point out the rude behavior and have the parent realize the mistake. Other couples who point out this type of behavior risk having the parent not attend the wedding because they are insulted.

Friends of the bride and groom can also sometimes be troublesome during the process of planning the wedding. They may interfere where their help is not needed or want, speak rudely to service providers or make decisions they are not authorized to make. Again, how these situations are handled will depend on the individual and the relationship with the couple. Some couples may be able to speak directly to the offending friend about the problems and work together to resolve the problem. Other couples can get around the problem by simply not including the friend in the planning and keeping discussions about the planning to a minimum. In most cases the friend will realize her help is not needed.

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Sometimes It Is Harder To Commit to the Dress than to the Fiancé

Posted by Carlos | Posted in Wedding Niche | Posted on 26-05-2009

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Most brides to be had no hesitation when their fiancé proposed. They may have knew this day was coming and responded with an enthusiastic yes before the fiancé even got the question out. Even if they were completely caught by surprise by the proposal, they likely responded quickly after a moment or two of stunned silence. However, when it comes to selecting a dress for the wedding day most brides to be have a lot more trouble making a decision. They may waffle between two dresses or even have trouble narrowing their choices down to less than ten options. This article will provide tips for brides to be who are struggling to select a wedding dress for their big day.

Most brides to be find that choosing a wedding date really helps to narrow down their choices right away. In fact many brides can cut the suitable options available in their local wedding gown shop by 50% by choosing a date. This is not true for all brides though. That is because most brides easily make this decision because they are not willing to wear a wedding gown which is meant for summer for a January wedding. Likewise they are not willing to wear a wintry type wedding gown for a June wedding. However, there are always some brides for whom the season does not matter and they want the perfect dress even if it is not appropriate for the current season.

We recommend beginning the process of wedding dress shopping right from your own home. Spend some time looking at online retailers and wedding magazines to get yourself started. Once you begin looking through pictures of wedding gowns you will begin to learn what you do like and what you don’t like. This will save you a great deal of time in the long run because you can look at hundreds of pictures online or in magazines in just a fraction of the amount of time it would take you to try on the same number of dresses. However, if you do your homework, you can walk into a bridal shop with a good idea about the types of dresses you want to try on. You should still go into the dress shopping experience with an open mind but won’t have to try on everything in the store to figure out what you like.

We also highly recommend limiting the number of people you take with you when you go dress shopping. This is critical because the more people you bring with you the more opinions you will hear about each dress and this will make choosing one much harder. You should also be careful about who you will invite to come dress shopping with you. You will want to bring along trusted friends or family members who will be honest with you about how a dress looks on you without being offensive. You don’t want someone who will be afraid to tell you that a dress does not look good on you but you also don’t want someone who will hurt your feelings during the process. Shopping for a wedding dress is supposed to be a fun experience so keep that in mind when you invite others to come along.

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Planning Your Wedding Online

Posted by Carlos | Posted in Wedding Niche | Posted on 26-05-2009

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What did brides do before the Internet? It is difficult to even imagine the amount of running around brides must have done to coordinate and plan their weddings before the Internet. Nowadays it is so easy to sit at your computer and comparison shop for items and then have them shipped directly to your do. Just a few years ago this was not possible. Every single detail related to the wedding had to be finalized either in person or over the phone. No wonder so many brides became overwhelmed and transformed into the Bridezillas that are so common today. However, with the popularity of the Internet planning your wedding online is so incredibly easy. This article will discuss the subject of planning your wedding online and provide practical tips for how the Internet can be used to make wedding planning much easier.

Most brides and grooms begin the process of planning their wedding by searching for locations for the wedding ceremony and the wedding reception. Before the Internet became so widely popular this was typically accomplished by spending a day, or several days, driving around to different reception halls and banquet facilities to select a suitable location. The happy couple would have to remember details about each location to make the best possible decision after seeing several options. However, with the Internet couples can visit websites for all of the reception halls in their city in a matter of minutes. Most of these locations have detailed websites with pictures and floor plans available. Most even have calendars showing availability. Couples can narrow their choices down to just a few local options they want to visit before making a final decision. They can even use the Internet to begin planning a destination wedding. They may not see the venue before the wedding arrangements are made but through photographs and videos they can be sure they are selecting the right location.

Once a date has been set and a location chosen, most brides immediately move onto dress shopping. Here is where planning your wedding online really comes in handy. Whether you have only one store nearby selling wedding attire or you have too many stores to visit using the Internet to shop for your dream wedding dress is idea. Those who live in areas where there are limited options for finding the perfect wedding dress will love the options available to them when they shop online. Those who have live in areas where there are many stores selling bridal attire will also prefer shopping online because they can narrow their options down to a more manageable number before they even leave their home. This can be a huge relief because remembering details on dresses can be incredibly difficult especially for brides who try on a number of similar dresses. After several stores the different dresses may start to blend into each other in the bride’s mind and she may find herself getting confused. However, if she starts shopping online she can just keep several windows open at a time to easily compare dresses. Sure the bride will still want to try on dresses but it will be much less overwhelming if she has allowed decided on just a few options.

Selecting a theme for a wedding can also be done online. Not only can couples find a variety of different options available to them but they can begin piecing together different items that will really help to define the theme. For example they may find wedding invitations at one location and dishware for rent from another location. When the couple begins to put these different items together online the theme really starts to take shape. The favors given at the wedding usually reflect the theme so once the couple decides on a theme and finds enough items to pull it together they can begin shopping online for favors. This is so much easier than traipsing around to many different stores where stock may be limited. When shopping online for favors, the couple can search all over the world for the perfect favors for their guests in a matter of minutes.

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